Visiting in the slums

I don't often get the opportunity to visit families in the slum communities as I am busy with the girls and other commitments but recently I have had the privilege of visiting some families as part of some research that John and I are doing. Whenever I visit families I am overwhelmed by the welcome we receive and the warmth that is shown among the desperate situations that we witness. I just wanted to share with you, my visits to a few of these families to give you a picture of some of the people we are working with.

Mama I is a 19 year old mother originally from the Congo. She has a little boy who is around a year old and is bringing him up alone. My visit to this Mama's house was one of joy and hope. Mama had recently returned from a 3 week trip to a re-feeding and training centre which Revelation Life had paid for and taken her to, due to the severity of her son's malnutrition. As I sat in her one roomed home, she excitedly told me about her experience at the centre and how well her little boy was doing. She had the laminated timetable from her stay at the centre on her wall and was now following the same routine at home. She laughed and chatted, showing me the forms with baby I's weights at different stages and spoke with confidence about how she knew that baby I would not become malnourished again, as she now knew how to cook well for him. She spoke so fondly of the revelation life team and their faithfulness. She showed me the cream which the team had given her which healed a terrible rash that innocent had had. I was left so humbled and grateful for what I had in my own life. This Mama was so over the moon and grateful for having been given a pot of cream, some mentoring in how to cook and people that truly cared for her. Her home was very simple, she had few possessions, no husband to take care of her, no job but she now had a healthy son and was full of Hope. The team continue to visit her a few times a week to check in with her, deliver her food for her son and monitor her progress. Well done Mama Innocent for your positive approach to life and for showing me how small things can make a world of difference.

My visit with Mama T (in the picture above) was somewhat different from the one I described above. Sometimes when I chat with people and they tell me their story, I can't believe how so many tragedies can happen in one persons life. It was like this with Mama T. I sat on the floor on the edge of a thin dirty mattress as there were no chairs or beds in this tiny windowless one room home. Never the less, mama was extremely welcoming and was happen to tell us about her life and her situation. She had 2 babies living with her, baby T who is a year and a half and B, his younger sister, who is about 6 months. Both looked weak and unwell although there was an obvious bond and love between them and there mother. As we chatted I found out that her first husband had died and that her three children had gone to live with her in laws family (am unsure if this was against her will, her choice or just a necessity). She had left the countryside for the city in search of work and found a new man. She gave birth to a boy but sadly due to illness and lack of money for medical fees, he did not reach his first birthday. This profoundly affected Mama and she has not really been the same since. To add to all of this, when she was pregnant with baby B she found out that her husband had been killed in Somalia where he was a soldier. So much loss in one persons life. Life is tough in Kampala's slums, especially when you have no man to take care of you. There is no benefit system, so if you want to eat you have to somehow earn money even if you have no job. My heart went out to Mama T and her desperate situation. I wanted to hold her and for all the pain to go away. Although she had been given lots of help and support from Revelation Life, her situation failed to improve significantly because of the severity of her situation and her loss of Hope. We, however, are not losing Hope in her and now look to the future, considering what Mama T and others in a similar situation need to help get them back on their feet and re-find hope for their lives.

Making toys

Short and sweet!

Not just this blog post but these two lovely children who are about to teach you some cool new skills to try out:

a) with your own kids

b) with pupils at school

c) on your own, on a cold, wet, English Sunday afternoon ;-)

I made this one the other day. Daniella is Mayah's friend and our friend, Harriet's daughter.

This is an old one, but please watch it as I'm trying to break the 250,000 views mark! 

Round houses and mud chairs

I went up to Gulu last week, which is in the north, where the LRA (Kony and his mates) and the Ugandan Army did some very, very terrible things. But let's not just define the place by it's post conflict status - it was a really great place to visit and is doing well at getting back on its feet.

We spent two days 'in the field' out in Amuru (about 2 hours each way on very potholed and slippery roads). The homes were all like those above and the compounds were exceptionally clean and tidy, I did feel a bit of a slob when I imagined how they might react if they came round to ours - even though it's actually pretty good (you do a great job Sue!). My main reason for going was to find out about mud furniture and a bit more about groups and how they work well together, so we had lots of questions and listening to do.

I was also there to make a video about building a chair out of mud and bricks so that I could a) show it to the people in the slums where we work b) share it with the world on Youtube and c) make a bit of money by doing it for Send a Cow - fair enough eh? Making the video was simple as we worked with Jennifer, her friend and Andrew (below), who were really great and let me boss then around to help me get the right shot - which isn't easy when there is harsh sunlight outside and darkness inside their homes. Isaac King and I surprised ourselves by actually feeling really sad when we'd all finished up at the end of the day, that's how nice they all were (Isaac also said that he would like to spend a holiday in one of the huts, which I'm sure we could arrange).

So, because of the light I decided on a photo-video as it would have been too blurry otherwise. If you want to know how to make one of these beautiful items of furniture then watch this and you'll be rolling up the carpet and getting bricks from the garden quick sharp.

Make a mud & brick chair 

Or just take a look at these beauties...

Mud up north

Next week I'm heading 'up north' to a place called Amuru. Unlike going up north in the UK, this trip doesn't involve extra rain and extra eyeshadow, but it does involve strong accents. Why the 5 hour drive? Well, there's a group of Send a Cow farmers there who have been innovating in making all sorts of household furniture out of mud and a few sticks. I must admit, I've no idea how they do it so well, but that is why I'm heading up.

I'll also be gate-crashing the Send a Cow Social Development meetings, which will give me a really good idea on how to help groups increase their resilience to shocks, change and challenges - which we all know come our way in life. I'll be updating when I return, for now, here are some pictures of the kind of things these groups make. Maybe you'll start seeing them in IKEA soon?

For those who like maps like I do, here's a  map...

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Rain, rain

We are all anticipating some heavy rains over the next few months. For us, this will just mean coats on and a few slips in the mud, but for many in the slum communities it means flooded homes, cold nights and sick children.

It's not something that can change overnight, but it is something that we can work with the communities on; helping them to adapt their housing and run off trenches as well as trying to get in touch with the local council so that they can do their bit too.

I made this little video to show the impact of just one mornings' rain so that if I do meet up with a local political bod, I can whip my phone out and show them this...

Expect the Unexpected!

Before we moved to Uganda, when we were  just in the preparation stage, we were given a prophetic word from a friend that we should expect the unexpected. This has been true over and over again here. This has definitely been true of our journey into school life. Back at school in the UK, I remember a colleague asking me if I would get a teaching job in Uganda. I answered very strongly that no I wouldn't be and had no intention of working in a school. I also was fully expecting to be homeschooling the girls for at least the first year. Well things aren't always as you expect and I am now working in an international school (2 days a week) and the girls are attending the school 3 days a week.
It has been a beautiful journey and has God's blessing all over it! The first few months homeschooling went really well and the girls loved having so much time to play and enjoyed the schooling part, but it soon became obvious that they were desparate for friends of their own age and something more.  School fees for international schools here are really high so God seemed to have it all sorted that I could work for a couple of days at the school (which I love doing) in exchange for school fees. The school we found has just 60 kids in it from 3 - 11 and the largest class has only 15 children in it. In Ava's class of 12, there are 10 different nationalities, making it truly international. Mayah has settled in really well and loves her teacher and classmates and the small setting suits her down to the ground. It is such a joy to hear her chat so happily about school and to be so settled there. She even gets to do ballet as an after school club! Ava also loves school and participates in all activities with enthusiasm!. She has made some really strong friendships.

The other totally unexpected part of all this is my role in the school. I am overseeing the early years class (3 - 5's)! My experience in teaching has mainly been with 9-11 year olds. However, God's grace has totally been on me and I have really enjoyed this new challenge, especially having the opportunity to shape how the early years class operates. Working with an amazing Ugandan teacher and lovely Dutch lady has also been a joy.
Before we came, we felt really strongly that God would take good care of our children, that he wouldn't call us to work here and then abandon our girls. I am so excited to be able to testify to God's goodness that he really has taken care of the girls. It has been a journey with some homesickness and tears, but they have now developed strong friendships with 3 or 4 children each, are loving school, generally are enjoying life and will openly talk about how they are happy living here.
I am sure there will be many more trials to come but I trust God that he will continue to look after our girls and fill their lives with blessing.

The must-have, miracle tree Moringa

Anyone who has spoken to me recently has probably heard me mention something about this special tree.

There's a lot that can be said about it, but to be brief, here are some pictures and a few words to give an idea as to why this tree now has a special place in my heart.

Let me introduce my personal (2 and a half month old) tree. They grow really quickly and in poor soils and as my mission is to replicate what is going on in the slums in mini-tests, this one is growing in a large water bottle. 

 So, what's so special about this tree? Well, there is almost too much to say. It has so many nutritional benefits, here are just a few:

It's used around the world and grows very well in the tropics - basically it grows in just about all of the countries where malnutrition is a problem. Handy eh? Also very handy is the fact that after doing some research and wanting to find a Moringa expert locally, it just so happens that one lives next door! He even helps publish book about the tree.

I'm not saying it definitely does all of the things below, but sometimes the wisdom of generations past can know best.

My plan is to trial growing Moringa in the slum communities, on roof tops in pots, in old jerry cans and water bottles. One great bloke called Fred is very keen on trying out some new ideas and so I'll be putting some pictures up soon of his home in the slum with pots on top and around the sides. I want to go slowly and carefully though, as the government tried to popularise Moringa a few years back and sold the idea as a get-rich-quick crop, but there was no market for it as people were not aware of it's many benefits. That's where we'll start - with telling people why it's so good.

If you want more info and a bit of hard evidence to back up some of these claims, try this site out.

Oh, and you can use the seeds to purify water too.....